We need to breathe. Period. Let’s not forget that. Sometimes in your attempt to support your child, you worry, an unhealthy amount, about their reactions to failure. Failure should be viewed as an opportunity to learn and grow and succeed in the future. But does failure need to be extremely public or potentially humiliating? I don’t […]
A Momma card is an imaginary card that is given to every woman as soon as she gives birth, adopts, fosters or becomes a guardian to a child. She is then officially deemed to be a mother and agrees to honor the duties of a mother. What are mother duties? Well, I looked it up since […]
Halloween Trick or Treat privileges should help earn good behavior every October just as a visit from Santa is currency for parents each December. Do not hesitate to take away or reduce those Halloween night privileges, because once you have, it can be an effective way to achieve improved behavior for a long time to […]
This is the story of how I became a survivalist mom within months of giving birth. I feel this is an important topic to address now because some pregnant women are preparing for parenting perfection while other women are still struggling and hoping to achieve parenting perfection. Spoiler alert: it does not exist. You will […]
Organized chaos is still chaos. By definition, chaos is messy, confusing and disorderly. I have a classic STEM (Science, Technology, Engineering, Math) mind. I dislike chaos. I need rules. I love order. I adore predictability. I live to identify problems and find lasting solutions. I function at my best when correct and incorrect answers are the two options. […]
My children called my mother Nana. She was my rock, but she died in 2007. And I miss her every day. Still. I have had time to reflect on my personal upbringing, and I now believe that Nana was a closeted Momma Addict (MA)! My mom worked full time at Sears & Roebuck and retired as […]